Monday, May 30, 2011
Epilogue
In many ways it is like the end of a vacation. Every vacation leaves one changed somewhat. As you would expect a year long vacation makes a huge mark. We certainly picked up a lot of free training for urban living. Every time I think that I am losing some of my “New York-ness” I find that it is still there when needed, a bit like riding a bike. It is a determination and it is an efficiency. It is getting from here to there without wasting a step. New York requires this because of its density.
We will always miss the things that brought us to New York to begin with and specifically to Midtown Manhattan and all the neighborhood attractions: Central Park, Rockefeller Center, Museum of Modern Art, Bryant Park. We took advantage of our location and visited those icons regularly. Some of the other things we miss were unknown to us until we lived there. All the great affordable restaurants in Hell’s Kitchen, some of the hidden gems of Greenwich Village, but most of all and the most surprising was just how convenient everything was in New York City. All the free and cheap delivery, the inexpensive buses and trains, all the great street food. If it wasn’t for the rent prices one could really save money in Manhattan believe it or not.
We were torn about leaving the City. We could have settled in there but we knew each subsequent year would be less interesting. Not that we saw and did everything there was to do but we knew that we would adopt a routine and start repeating things and the sense of excitement and discovery would drop very quickly. One year was good, perhaps perfect. We got to see all the seasons. We would have never traveled to New York for Christmas or New Years but there we were and they were the most exciting times to be there. What a bundle of wonderful memories. And best of all that so many of you made time to see us during that year. Those memories are the most special. Thank you. We couldn’t have done it without you.
We will see you at the Toronto Blog
Bill and Toni
Tuesday, May 3, 2011
Graduation Day
The last days of our stay in NYC were coming up quickly. The apartment had the perimeter lined with boxes to be shipped ahead and luggage to take on the flight to Toronto. We quickly realized that all of this luggage would not fit in a regular Crown Vic cab and it wouldn’t even work with one of the newer SUVs that are now pretty common. In NYC you cannot call ahead for a Yellow Cab. You can only reserve a limo or black cab. We looked into that but found that it was more than four times the cost of a flagged cab. Then I smacked my forehead as the solution came to me. We would simply go in two regular cabs. Duh.
Midday on Wednesday we rounded up our luggage at the apartment door. Jimmy, one of the building’s porters, came right up and put everything on their luggage rack and we headed for the taxi stand queue. This line of cabs extends from the door of the Sheraton Hotel on 7th Avenue, across 53rd Street, and up a quarter block or so. I went on ahead to secure my cab and start loading. When I got to the corner I could not believe my eyes. There was before me a yellow cab van! I have never seen such a thing in New York. If this were a scene from a movie this would be where you would the angelic chorus and a beam of light shining down. I would later find out this was one van of a new roll out, so new it wasn’t even announced until today. What luck.
I made a beeline for him and approached the driver to explain our needs and situation. I told him how many bags we had and detailed the sizes and two passengers going to Laguardia. He responded in a thick Russian accent that he was already reserved and motioned toward the hotel. Now, you are not supposed to approach a car in the queue. I think it is some unwritten code that they wait their turn in line. Okay, so figured I needed to convince him and perhaps he didn’t quite understand. I repeated our needs and our ‘inventory’ and our destination. He seemed a bit agitated now and told me he just couldn’t take us. By this time Toni had caught up with the bags in tow. The driver and I were still going around and around when he suddenly flipped on his “off duty” lights. Okay, now I was agitated. I asked “What’s going on? You had your lights off a second ago!” He just shrugged his shoulders. Toni was of course puzzled and asking tons of questions. I simply waved my hand at the driver in disgust and said, “Ah, forget it, he just doesn’t want to take us to the airport!” I started to turn away and regroup for the original plan. Suddenly, the driver’s demeanor changed totally. “Okay, I’ll take you to the airport”, he said as he jumped out and started loading us up. I was completely puzzled but said nothing.
Finally, we got underway and as we did we instantly became fast friends, talking about each other’s lives past and present and all manner of happy talk. As I talked I was still pondering what had just transpired. Did I suddenly learn to talk Jedi? Had I become a pushy New Yorker? I can’t confirm this and the driver would have never admitted this but I think I had simply stumbled on a key phrase. You see it is illegal for a driver to refuse any fare to any of the boroughs, ever. They can be subject to substantial fines and repeat offenses can lead to losing their medallion. Many drivers will refuse an airport fare because once they drop you off they have to either wait in a very long queue or come back empty. Usually the queue is so long that they prefer to come back empty. I believe he might have started thinking he was in a sting situation when he suddenly agreed to take us.
If I think of the past year as a crash course in urban living then I felt as I left the city for the last time that I had just passed the final exam.
Wednesday, April 27, 2011
Roll Call/Role Call
We want to tell all of you thanks for everything and we hope to continue crossing paths whether real or virtual.
Tuesday, April 26, 2011
Easter At Rockefeller Center
Wednesday, April 20, 2011
Twentieth Visitor
Day One:
After Kathy’s midday arrival we went straight to the Macy’s Annual Flower Show. On the way out of the apartment I asked the doorman about all the barriers I had noticed the night before. I learned that Obama was coming back to the Sheraton for a speech at Al Sharpton’s convention for his National Action Network. So after Macy’s we scrambled back so we get to our apartment before the lock down and watched as the sharpshooters set up again. We knew the drill from last summer. When that finally wound down we had a quiet Thai dinner in Hell’s Kitchen.
Day Two:
We took in three floors at the MoMA and a really nice late lunch at their café. From there we took in some of the sights around Rockefeller Plaza. We had managed to secure passes for the Jimmy Fallon taping that afternoon. You have no idea who the guests will be when you reserve these about six weeks ahead of time. We were excited to learn that the musical guest would be Paul Simon. Great luck. As if that was not enough excitement the three of us wound up being shown in the audience for a couple of minutes of one of their skits. Later that night we felt obliged to stay up and watch ourselves on the broadcast to make sure we weren’t cut or that we hadn’t imagined the whole thing. It was pretty exciting.
If you don't care to see the entire skit you can jump ahead to around the 3:30 mark for the first of our several appearances here. You will see left to right, me, Kathy, Toni, just to the right of the actor.
If the embed video doesn't appear here is the direct link. http://www.latenightwithjimmyfallon.com/video/how-you-like-me-now-4711/1318895/
The video is no longer available at the Fallon website. This LINK will open it in your Windows Media Player though:
https://dl.dropboxusercontent.
Day Three:
A quick stroll, if you can call it that, through Time’s Square, then to Bryant Park, the New York Public Library, the lobby of the Chrysler Building. From there we back tracked to Grand Central Station for The Oyster Bar followed by cheesecake at Junior’s. Recharged we went to 34th Street to go to the observation deck of The Empire State Building. It was strictly unintentional but we had inadvertently put together an architectural tour for the day.
Day Four:
We took the long bus ride all the way to the bottom of the island to catch the Staten Island Ferry. This runs every ten or fifteen minutes and provides the only access to the Island from Manhattan. It also includes great views of the Statue of Liberty and the Manhattan skyline…each way. After completing the round trip we caught another bus to Greenwich Village and spent the late afternoon and evening touring many of our favorite haunts.
Day Five:
We spent virtually the whole day touring Central Park. This time we took a bus up to the Upper West Side and started working our way back from 96th Street south towards our place. This put us at the Reservoir. Just about any time you see people jogging Central Park in the movies this is the spot. We circled around the lake to the west side until we got to the lower 80s. We took a time out from the park to grab some lunch over on Amsterdam. Then back to the park and Belvedere Castle. This was especially nice since the trees were not yet blooming and the views were spectacular. From there we wound over to The Loeb Boat House and managed to get our hot drinks served five minutes before the café closed for the day. Then we got into more familiar territory at Bethesda Fountain and The Mall. Finally we went to Strawberry Fields and the Imagine Mosaic. It was getting cooler so we wound up the CP tour and caught the subway back to the apartment. Later I asked Kathy what she would go back and see a second time in a future visit and she said Central Park. So, I am glad we saved that for the last day.
Sadly the fun tour was over and the next morning we grudgingly said goodbye to Kathy. I know that it was a week that we will remember fondly forever. It was a wonderful mix of seeing icons, living as locals, and a couple of extraordinary surprises. Kathy clicked her ruby red sneakers and she was off to Kansas.
To see some photos from this visit HERE
Saturday, April 16, 2011
Nineteenth Visitors
Wednesday, April 13, 2011
Apartment Hunters...Again
The next day we hit our list of furnished apartments with a rental agent. Nothing really clicked with either of us as the furnishings were usually a mish-mash or simply not our taste. We took the next day off to regroup and line up viewings of non-furnished units. Toni and the agent took the following day to check this category while stayed behind to get caught up on work. She found some places with great views but didn’t get excited enough about anything for to take time to go for a second look.
We had been looking in an area around Bay and College which might roughly correspond to our area in Midtown Manhattan. Lots of high rises and plenty of services and public transportation in all directions. Toni’s sister suggested another part of town that we weren’t familiar with. It is known as the Saint Lawrence Market. This is closer to the Lake and a bit east of the downtown financial area. As we looked into it we quickly realized that this might suit us better. After all we did not want to simply replicate our New York experience. This also had good public transportation access but as a bonus a more eclectic mix of services and amenities. You might compare this to parts of Greenwich Village.
So this time I left the agent out of the mix and hit Craigslist hard and heavy. I came up with two places that looked very promising and both were fully furnished and “by owner”. I quickly set up back to back showings for the next day. Then the next morning I took another quick look on CL and found one more match. Toni quickly wrote the owner and he called back and set up a third appointment just before we headed out the door. I had good feelings about all three listings.
Here are listings:
2br - Large Downtown 2 bedroom Furnished Condo (Financial and St Lawrence District)
Rare large unit located on the border of the Financial District and walking distance from the St Lawrence Market and the trendy King Street entertainment core.
This two bedroom unit with two full baths is spacious with 9 ½ foot ceilings.
Stunning floor to ceiling custom built wall unit with built in fireplace provides ample storage while adding rich feel to the space.
Custom Murphy bed in the second bedroom allows the room to be used as a second bedroom and an office.
One parking and locker included in the price.
Owner plans to leave the unit furnished however there may be flexibility on the price if unfurnished is preferred.
Amenities include Rooftop, Indoor Pool, Fitness Cenre, Just move in and enjoy!!
7 King St East
Tuesday, April 12, 2011
Richard Thompson at Carnegie Hall
1) I Misunderstood
2) Withered & Died
3) The Turning Of The Tide
4) The Money Shuffle
5) The Woods Of Darney
6) She Twists The Knife Again
7) Sunset Song
8) 1952 Vincent Black Lightning
9) Stumble On
10) Hamlet Song
11) Persuasion
12) Crawl Back Under My Stone
13) Bee’s Wing (request #1)
14) Cold Kisses
15) I Feel So Good
encore:
16) Matty Groves (request #2)
Saturday, April 2, 2011
Eighteenth Visitors
Tuesday, March 29, 2011
Baker's Dozen
Monday, March 28, 2011
West Side Stories
Wednesday, March 16, 2011
Lucinda Williams In The East Village
Seventeenth Visitor
Tuesday, March 15, 2011
ourweekinkc
As we near our anniversary of being in New York City we are firming up plans for our next year which will be in Toronto. We thought it would be easier to get in a KC visit before rather than after the next move. We are sorry that we could not manage getting around to seeing everyone we hold dearly and that we did not get to spend more time with those we did see. We are grateful to have all of you in our lives and also grateful that we are able to stay in touch electronically today.
We plan to be living in Toronto by the end of April. In the meantime stay tuned for a flurry of more posts here as we aren’t done with Manhattan by a long stretch. Thanks for all the kind words about our blog and the encouragement to start another one in Toronto. We will be happy to report what we encounter there as well and hope to have just as many visitors in the coming year.
Photos:
RecordBar
Family Party
Happy Hour
BBQ
Brothers
Quivira
Sunday, February 27, 2011
Sidewalk Surfing
The main thing is to realize that in Manhattan the sidewalks generally operate like automobile traffic. You will find it easy to blend in if you handle yourself in much the same way that you do with your car. So, to start as you are coming out of a building you should enter slowly and look both directions.
Once you merge with the flow you need to be constantly scanning your surroundings, taking care to be aware of oncoming traffic as well as people behind you wanting to pass. Walking more than two abreast is a pretty bad idea. There are few places where that is possible for more than a minute or two at a stretch. If you do walk side by side you need to be able to switch to single file in an instant. Eventually you learn to carry on a conversation, have it abruptly interrupted, and then pick back up on it as the situation dictates. Apply the rules of the road to the sidewalk. Just as you would never suddenly stop on the highway you should not do that as a pedestrian either. Check behind you and step aside just like you would go to the shoulder. If you are in a group and have a sudden need for a conference try to consider your fellow walkers and gather in a spot out of the main flow.
In dense crowds like Times Square and rush hour you will get through much faster and with less frustration if you let someone else blaze the trail. Take note of someone moving about the speed you want to be going and just sort of shadow them. They will likely be taking a winding path rather than the usual straight line but if you stick with them you will find it is like coasting or drafting and your mental strain will drop.
Another good pointer is to walk against the car traffic if possible. Usually there are many alternatives in choosing a route to your destination. Nearly all the streets in Manhattan are one-way so if you have two options that are otherwise equal always take the one that is opposite the car traffic. This way when you are at crosswalks the cars turning on the red lights will be doing so in front of you where you can easily see what is happening instead of behind you where your attention is unnecessarily divided.
This leads right into the most critical part of walking safety, the crosswalk. The crosswalk may appear to be simple but it is one of the more complicated functions of Manhattan. At your first encounter you naturally look both ways before crossing and almost immediately realize this is a one way street. Don’t worry as no one else notices. The natives are too busy playing their game of “see who can cross the street first”. They are busy looking at a dozen or more different cues for when it is safe or at perhaps just less dangerous. Don’t follow them unless you are fluent in the art. In fact don’t even go with the herd without looking way down the road for one last cab trying to make the light. The herd saw that cab and knows it can cross. Keep in mind that, as far as I know, there Is no such thing as a speed limit in Manhattan. At least I have never seen a speed limit sign anywhere. That straggling cab can be on you in no time. After a while you will become adept at crossing against the light but don’t be in a big hurry.
Another crossing hazard is the bicyclist or the pedicab. They are supposed to follow the rules that apply to other vehicles of the road but occasionally a scofflaw will go the wrong way and/or run red lights. Near misses are an all too frequent occurrence and can have disastrous results.
When the light does change it will be like two dams bursting at once and you will be part of one tidal wave faced with passing through the opposing tidal wave. It will go smoother than you would think. Instead of crashing into a gridlock the two groups magically swirl through each other like schools of fish. A few seconds later the bunch will spread out and you will be back to the routine of the sidewalk, ready for the next crosswalk encounter as the cycle repeats.
There is no other place that requires a pedestrian to be so attentive. You must constantly scan and reassess your situation as carefully as driving a car in rush hour highway traffic. But with time and diligence you will eventually get into the flow and choreography of the process and you will no longer even think about what you are doing.
Wednesday, February 23, 2011
Sixteenth Visitor or No Company For Old Men
Then suddenly in 1991 he was promoted and transferred to the Boston office of Sony Music, which purchased CBS Records in 1987. We have not seen each other since. News of his further promotions would filter back to us through the record business grapevine. Each step was more and more unbelievable.
Jim arrived right on time and true to form with a bottle of fine wine in hand. We spent the next couple of hours trading updates on our adventures over the last two decades. Once Jim arrived in Boston he quickly rose within the company and found himself as the branch manager for all of Boston. A few years later he became branch manager for New York and eventually was promoted to executive vice president / general manager for the entire company. By this time Sony Music had merged with BMG (formerly RCA Records) creating the second largest recording company in the world. The record industry is known for having relatively young executives and unceremoniously dumping them as they reach an age where it is felt they can no longer relate to the young music coming up. The age of this demarcation is usually around fifty years old. I have had several friends in the record label business over the years and this rule of thumb has proven to be hard fast. Jim managed to defy the odds for an additional six years or so and is now enjoying his early retirement.
The three of us went to our favorite restaurant in our neighborhood, Maison, just across the street for round two of our get together. There we were able to continue with our reunion and for three more hours go from reminiscing to sharing our hopes and dreams for retirement and where to spend it. Jim had a long train ride back and it was late and cold. We took a couple of last photos on the sidewalk, shook hands and exchanged hugs. Jim hailed a cab to get back to Grand Central Station while I waited for the light to change. As he climbed into the cab we waved goodbye and like that he was gone again.
This whole evening was totally a result of reconnecting on Facebook. There are many who don’t think much of Facebook but I have to tell you that it is nothing short of magic. I know that we will be able to keep track of each other going forward and we will not take another twenty years to cross paths again.
Friday, February 18, 2011
Outdoor Skating At Bryant Park
Today was unusually warm, well into the sixties, so Toni and I headed out to soak in some of the great weather. We went with my choice, Bryant Park. In the winter they take up the sod in the center of the park and install an outdoor skating rink lined with Christmas shops. At this point the shops are nearly all gone and rink will be removed in another week or so.
Enjoy this short video.
Saturday, February 12, 2011
...Where Nature Ends...
One Sunday there was a bit of a break in the weather and I found an exhibit that would be closing soon. It was in a small museum called Neue Galerie located in the “Museum Mile” on the Upper East Side, about midway between the Metropolitan and the Guggenheim. It is in what once was a huge mansion but it is rather small to be called a museum. It has a Fifth Avenue address but I almost missed it as the entrance is actually on the cross street, 86th, with minimal signage. The place was packed but it turned out that most of the people were there for brunch. There are two cafes there on two floors taking up half of the public space in the old building. Both had long waiting lines so I wonder whether the main business is actually art or food. I was there to see a huge collection of art postcards that were produced in Austria from 1907 to 1920. I like poster art from the 20s and 30s and these are simply miniature posters. HERE are some examples. The other display was equally impressive and actually pretty bizarre and creepy. It was a collection of busts created in the 1770s. Take a look at them to see what I mean. They certainly don’t look like other works from that period. I do believe they may have inspired an episode of The Twilight Zone. If you are in New York and in the mood to see some different art remember that the smaller and lesser known places can be great experiences.
A week later Toni took a similar excursion and she takes over here:
I made it to my destination after trudging through the piles of slush and snow from the train station at 77th and Park to The Whitney at 75th and Madison. Once I was warm inside I assessed the space. It was smaller than the MoMA, but larger and more accommodating then the Guggenheim. I decided to visit three floors: first the Edward Hopper exhibit, then the 12 large permanent installations titled “Singular Visions”, and end with Charles LeDray’s “Workworkworkworkwork”. All three shows gave me the lift I needed to shed my cabin fever. The Hopper contained enlightening historical visuals of early 20th century New York City that I have never seen anywhere else. The arrangement of “Singular Visions” isolated each of the pieces so communication between it and the viewer was maximized. Paul Chan’s “1st Light” and Edward Kienholz’s “The Wait” was well worth seeing in person and will be lasting memories for me. Both send strong messages to get out and enjoy life now, something we can never be reminded of too many times. Then I was amazed at the thousands of perfectly arranged ceramic pieces and miniature clothing vignettes of the LeDray exhibit, again something I will not forget and witnessing it in person is the only way to feel their messages. Now with my imagination on fire it kept me warm as I walked down 5th Avenue along the East Side of Central Park until I reached the Plaza Hotel’s new food hall for a late afternoon lunch.
Back to Bill here on:
Then a couple of weeks ago we both went to the MoMA. There we saw a new exhibit called “Abstract Expressionist New York” These works are all part of their permanent collection but we have not seen them displayed in this arrangement before. Works were from artists like Pollack, Motherwell, Mark Rothko, Franz Kline, and more.
After that we toured the second floor featuring the permanent architecture displays. Then we grabbed a bite, an excellent lunch of homemade lentil soup and shared a grilled chicken Panini at the museum’s café. This was our fourth excursion to our little neighborhood museum and we were amazed to find new things to enjoy in it as much as we did the first time we were there in 2006.
Last Sunday was the first really good weather we had in a month so we hauled ourselves off to Harlem to meet one of New York’s hardest working artists, Franco the Great. His works are not located in galleries and they can’t be enjoyed during normal hours, in fact, just the opposite. His most famous works have been painted not on canvas but instead painted on security gates. In order to accomplish that he had to paint them at night when the stores are closed and the gates are down. Of course when the stores are open they can’t be seen so you have to go late at night or early Sunday morning. Normally these gates are tempting targets for graffiti artists but these works have been left intact I suppose out of respect for Franco. You can also meet the artist as every Sunday he has a vendor table set up across the street from the Apollo.
His art is located on both sides of 125th Street and extends for a couple of blocks to the east and west of the Apollo Theater. Since we were going that way Toni called ahead about taking a tour of the theater. We were excited to find out that Sunday was their annual open house and we would get to see the building and some amateur performances for free. What a great bonus.
Thursday, February 3, 2011
Get Smart Moment
I went out to retrace my steps in the block long hallway but when I got to the door the knob wouldn’t budge. As it was all white on white I looked around for a bit to see if perhaps there was another door that I had missed but I couldn’t detect any. I knocked on the door for a while but there were no signs of anyone around. I finally gave up and found some unlocked doors at the opposite end of the hall. These led to another hallway that eventually wound around to the Rockefeller subway station and from there I finally found an elevator to get me back to street level. However, to complete the “Get Smart” angle it popped in the middle of a sidewalk at least a block from where I started out. As you can see in the photo the elevator does resemble a phone booth.