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Monday, May 30, 2011

Epilogue

We left New York City a month ago. I am not sure if that is enough time to pass to properly assess our year long stay there but I will give it a whirl. This was not planned but you may notice this is our 100th post.

In many ways it is like the end of a vacation. Every vacation leaves one changed somewhat. As you would expect a year long vacation makes a huge mark. We certainly picked up a lot of free training for urban living. Every time I think that I am losing some of my “New York-ness” I find that it is still there when needed, a bit like riding a bike. It is a determination and it is an efficiency. It is getting from here to there without wasting a step. New York requires this because of its density.

We will always miss the things that brought us to New York to begin with and specifically to Midtown Manhattan and all the neighborhood attractions: Central Park, Rockefeller Center, Museum of Modern Art, Bryant Park. We took advantage of our location and visited those icons regularly. Some of the other things we miss were unknown to us until we lived there. All the great affordable restaurants in Hell’s Kitchen, some of the hidden gems of Greenwich Village, but most of all and the most surprising was just how convenient everything was in New York City. All the free and cheap delivery, the inexpensive buses and trains, all the great street food. If it wasn’t for the rent prices one could really save money in Manhattan believe it or not.

We were torn about leaving the City. We could have settled in there but we knew each subsequent year would be less interesting. Not that we saw and did everything there was to do but we knew that we would adopt a routine and start repeating things and the sense of excitement and discovery would drop very quickly. One year was good, perhaps perfect. We got to see all the seasons. We would have never traveled to New York for Christmas or New Years but there we were and they were the most exciting times to be there. What a bundle of wonderful memories. And best of all that so many of you made time to see us during that year. Those memories are the most special. Thank you. We couldn’t have done it without you.

We will see you at the Toronto Blog

Bill and Toni


Tuesday, May 3, 2011

Graduation Day




The last days of our stay in NYC were coming up quickly. The apartment had the perimeter lined with boxes to be shipped ahead and luggage to take on the flight to Toronto. We quickly realized that all of this luggage would not fit in a regular Crown Vic cab and it wouldn’t even work with one of the newer SUVs that are now pretty common. In NYC you cannot call ahead for a Yellow Cab. You can only reserve a limo or black cab. We looked into that but found that it was more than four times the cost of a flagged cab. Then I smacked my forehead as the solution came to me. We would simply go in two regular cabs. Duh.

Midday on Wednesday we rounded up our luggage at the apartment door. Jimmy, one of the building’s porters, came right up and put everything on their luggage rack and we headed for the taxi stand queue. This line of cabs extends from the door of the Sheraton Hotel on 7th Avenue, across 53rd Street, and up a quarter block or so. I went on ahead to secure my cab and start loading. When I got to the corner I could not believe my eyes. There was before me a yellow cab van! I have never seen such a thing in New York. If this were a scene from a movie this would be where you would the angelic chorus and a beam of light shining down. I would later find out this was one van of a new roll out, so new it wasn’t even announced until today. What luck.

I made a beeline for him and approached the driver to explain our needs and situation. I told him how many bags we had and detailed the sizes and two passengers going to Laguardia. He responded in a thick Russian accent that he was already reserved and motioned toward the hotel. Now, you are not supposed to approach a car in the queue. I think it is some unwritten code that they wait their turn in line. Okay, so figured I needed to convince him and perhaps he didn’t quite understand. I repeated our needs and our ‘inventory’ and our destination. He seemed a bit agitated now and told me he just couldn’t take us. By this time Toni had caught up with the bags in tow. The driver and I were still going around and around when he suddenly flipped on his “off duty” lights. Okay, now I was agitated. I asked “What’s going on? You had your lights off a second ago!” He just shrugged his shoulders. Toni was of course puzzled and asking tons of questions. I simply waved my hand at the driver in disgust and said, “Ah, forget it, he just doesn’t want to take us to the airport!” I started to turn away and regroup for the original plan. Suddenly, the driver’s demeanor changed totally. “Okay, I’ll take you to the airport”, he said as he jumped out and started loading us up. I was completely puzzled but said nothing.

Finally, we got underway and as we did we instantly became fast friends, talking about each other’s lives past and present and all manner of happy talk. As I talked I was still pondering what had just transpired. Did I suddenly learn to talk Jedi? Had I become a pushy New Yorker? I can’t confirm this and the driver would have never admitted this but I think I had simply stumbled on a key phrase. You see it is illegal for a driver to refuse any fare to any of the boroughs, ever. They can be subject to substantial fines and repeat offenses can lead to losing their medallion. Many drivers will refuse an airport fare because once they drop you off they have to either wait in a very long queue or come back empty. Usually the queue is so long that they prefer to come back empty. I believe he might have started thinking he was in a sting situation when he suddenly agreed to take us.

If I think of the past year as a crash course in urban living then I felt as I left the city for the last time that I had just passed the final exam.

Wednesday, April 27, 2011

Roll Call/Role Call

Luis Rodriguez, our concierge, always with a smile and a witty comment.




Demba, the corner vendor who came from Somalia twenty years ago. He greeted me by name everyday.


We are down to the wire here in Manhattan with less than 24 hours left before we head to the airport. This seems like a good time to do a little call out to all of you who had a role in making this such a great year for us...in small and large ways and from here and from there.



Bob W., Jeff P., Norm D., Liz D., Mary Lee K., Eric A., Randy M., Jeff P., Frank G., Howard F., Luis R., Corky C., Don C., SS Johnny L. ,Isaac, Brent B., John P., Yelp, Buddy, Jonathan, Isaac, Dennis, Max, Ricardo, Champ, Julie D., CeCe, Susan S., Barb R., Gerry M., Kent R., Terry, Mike, Geeta, The Halal Guys, Demba, Brent S., Jennifer B., Jorma K., Mike W., Eva F., Lauren F., Rita R., Tim R., Kyra S., Bliss C., Susan C., Russ B., Raul M., Ray Wylie H., Judy H., Tim J., Janet J., Barack O., Cheryl B., Jamie G., Jurg B., Hanny B., Rod P., Amanda S., Betsy V., Roger V., Jeff M., Daniel L., Dave A., Kristi R., Fats K., Kathryn B., Mark P., Pat C., Jason B., Cynthia H., Cidney R., Kay B., Thom P., Fred P., Mahvash P., Elliott M., Brian L., Paul L., Matt L., Doug L., Deborah B., Meile R., Willie N., Elana J., Franco the Great, Jim L., Alan D., Connie D., Jerry S., Larry D., Woody A., Lucinda W., Kellie D., Sam D., Dawna W., Brent N., David G., Cheryl G., Richard T., Jimmy F., and Kathy B.



...and to all the blog readers around the world.

We want to tell all of you thanks for everything and we hope to continue crossing paths whether real or virtual.



Bill and Toni

Tuesday, April 26, 2011

Easter At Rockefeller Center












It was unusally warm Easter Sunday so we stopped by Rockefeller Plaza to check out the flower display. The Easter Parade on Fifth Avenue had just finished as we arrived and several of the decked out participants were not quite ready to call it a day. With the avenue opened for traffic they were finding other areas to strut. So here are some photos of plants and people showing off their best for Spring.



Wednesday, April 20, 2011

Twentieth Visitor




Who would have ever thought that we would get to spend so much quality time with so many friends in one year? Our last visitor to New York was Kathy Blackford. Some of you may know her as Kathy Redman. We go back to 1973 and our college days. Her visit couldn’t have worked out better. This was her first time to New York City and we were able to give her a capsulized version of our year in a bit less than a week. We were also able to incorporate many things from our ‘to do list’ that we wouldn’t have gotten to otherwise. Staten Island Ferry, Empire State Building, Chrysler Building, to name a few.

Day One:
After Kathy’s midday arrival we went straight to the Macy’s Annual Flower Show. On the way out of the apartment I asked the doorman about all the barriers I had noticed the night before. I learned that Obama was coming back to the Sheraton for a speech at Al Sharpton’s convention for his National Action Network. So after Macy’s we scrambled back so we get to our apartment before the lock down and watched as the sharpshooters set up again. We knew the drill from last summer. When that finally wound down we had a quiet Thai dinner in Hell’s Kitchen.

Day Two:
We took in three floors at the MoMA and a really nice late lunch at their café. From there we took in some of the sights around Rockefeller Plaza. We had managed to secure passes for the Jimmy Fallon taping that afternoon. You have no idea who the guests will be when you reserve these about six weeks ahead of time. We were excited to learn that the musical guest would be Paul Simon. Great luck. As if that was not enough excitement the three of us wound up being shown in the audience for a couple of minutes of one of their skits. Later that night we felt obliged to stay up and watch ourselves on the broadcast to make sure we weren’t cut or that we hadn’t imagined the whole thing. It was pretty exciting.

If you don't care to see the entire skit you can jump ahead to around the 3:30 mark for the first of our several appearances here. You will see left to right, me, Kathy, Toni, just to the right of the actor.

If the embed video doesn't appear here is the direct link. http://www.latenightwithjimmyfallon.com/video/how-you-like-me-now-4711/1318895/

The video is no longer available at the Fallon website.  This LINK will open it in your Windows Media Player though: 
https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/5772675/Jimmy%20Fallon%20video/NYC%20TV%20with%20Kathy.mp4







Day Three:
A quick stroll, if you can call it that, through Time’s Square, then to Bryant Park, the New York Public Library, the lobby of the Chrysler Building. From there we back tracked to Grand Central Station for The Oyster Bar followed by cheesecake at Junior’s. Recharged we went to 34th Street to go to the observation deck of The Empire State Building. It was strictly unintentional but we had inadvertently put together an architectural tour for the day.

Day Four:
We took the long bus ride all the way to the bottom of the island to catch the Staten Island Ferry. This runs every ten or fifteen minutes and provides the only access to the Island from Manhattan. It also includes great views of the Statue of Liberty and the Manhattan skyline…each way. After completing the round trip we caught another bus to Greenwich Village and spent the late afternoon and evening touring many of our favorite haunts.

Day Five:
We spent virtually the whole day touring Central Park. This time we took a bus up to the Upper West Side and started working our way back from 96th Street south towards our place. This put us at the Reservoir. Just about any time you see people jogging Central Park in the movies this is the spot. We circled around the lake to the west side until we got to the lower 80s. We took a time out from the park to grab some lunch over on Amsterdam. Then back to the park and Belvedere Castle. This was especially nice since the trees were not yet blooming and the views were spectacular. From there we wound over to The Loeb Boat House and managed to get our hot drinks served five minutes before the café closed for the day. Then we got into more familiar territory at Bethesda Fountain and The Mall. Finally we went to Strawberry Fields and the Imagine Mosaic. It was getting cooler so we wound up the CP tour and caught the subway back to the apartment. Later I asked Kathy what she would go back and see a second time in a future visit and she said Central Park. So, I am glad we saved that for the last day.

Sadly the fun tour was over and the next morning we grudgingly said goodbye to Kathy. I know that it was a week that we will remember fondly forever. It was a wonderful mix of seeing icons, living as locals, and a couple of extraordinary surprises. Kathy clicked her ruby red sneakers and she was off to Kansas.

To see some photos from this visit HERE

Saturday, April 16, 2011

Nineteenth Visitors



When we were in Toronto we spent an evening with one of my cousins on Mom’s side, Dawna Wightman. We had been in touch by email and phone for a few years but this was our first face to face meeting. She is an actor in the bustling film, TV, and commercial fields in Toronto. We found out that she had an audition scheduled in New York City the following week just blocks from our apartment so we offered up our couch for the night. We made plans for a dinner at our place. I also contacted Brent Nosworthy, another cousin who happens to live in Harlem. Brent and I have also been in contact for some time but had not met either. We had a wonderful miniature family reunion, sharing stories of our common heritage, our parents, grandparents, and other cousins. Oh, and of course, our upcoming move to Canada.

Brent’s father, Buddy, was not only Grandpa’s brother but his best friend as well. Dawna’s mother, Patsy, was Grandpa’s youngest sister and also had lived with my grandparents for a while when my mom and uncle were very young. So this particular combination of descendants seemed extra special.

Dawna also had a huge surprise for me. She handed me a small ring box and told me to open it. I did and saw a modest gold colored band. Its significance was lost on me at the moment. Dawna pointed out the inscription inside which showed my Grandfather’s name. It turned out that my Great Grandmother had the ring and gave it to Dawna decades ago without any explanation. Then a couple of months ago Dawna was moving some boxes when one fell to the floor and this ring box fell out.

We will never know the story behind this ring but I am certain that this is the first time it has been outside Canada. It will be returning there with me in just a few days. If I believed in magic I might think this will provide safe passage for me to Toronto.

Wednesday, April 13, 2011

Apartment Hunters...Again

We spent the last two weeks of March in Toronto preparing for our imminent move there. There were two major tasks at hand. First we needed to set up our banking there. Without that we could not proceed to the second task of finding an apartment. So our first full day there was dedicated almost completely to banking. It wasn’t terribly difficult as Toni was well prepared, but it was time consuming.


The next day we hit our list of furnished apartments with a rental agent. Nothing really clicked with either of us as the furnishings were usually a mish-mash or simply not our taste. We took the next day off to regroup and line up viewings of non-furnished units. Toni and the agent took the following day to check this category while stayed behind to get caught up on work. She found some places with great views but didn’t get excited enough about anything for to take time to go for a second look.

We had been looking in an area around Bay and College which might roughly correspond to our area in Midtown Manhattan. Lots of high rises and plenty of services and public transportation in all directions. Toni’s sister suggested another part of town that we weren’t familiar with. It is known as the Saint Lawrence Market. This is closer to the Lake and a bit east of the downtown financial area. As we looked into it we quickly realized that this might suit us better. After all we did not want to simply replicate our New York experience. This also had good public transportation access but as a bonus a more eclectic mix of services and amenities. You might compare this to parts of Greenwich Village.

So this time I left the agent out of the mix and hit Craigslist hard and heavy. I came up with two places that looked very promising and both were fully furnished and “by owner”. I quickly set up back to back showings for the next day. Then the next morning I took another quick look on CL and found one more match. Toni quickly wrote the owner and he called back and set up a third appointment just before we headed out the door. I had good feelings about all three listings.

Here are listings:

2br - Large Downtown 2 bedroom Furnished Condo (Financial and St Lawrence District)

Rare large unit located on the border of the Financial District and walking distance from the St Lawrence Market and the trendy King Street entertainment core.

This two bedroom unit with two full baths is spacious with 9 ½ foot ceilings.

Stunning floor to ceiling custom built wall unit with built in fireplace provides ample storage while adding rich feel to the space.

Custom Murphy bed in the second bedroom allows the room to be used as a second bedroom and an office.

One parking and locker included in the price.

Owner plans to leave the unit furnished however there may be flexibility on the price if unfurnished is preferred.

Amenities include Rooftop, Indoor Pool, Fitness Cenre, Just move in and enjoy!!

7 King St East




2BR Fully Furnished All Included Parking Pro Renovated Downtown (King and Yonge)

This Condo was featured in Canadian Living Magazine and on HGTV's website. Professionally designed by Jeffrey and Deborah Fisher, all professionally installed.

2BR Solarium/Office 2 Full Bathrooms 6 month lease Rent includes the following:

1 Underground Parking spot Fully furnished including linens and kitchen supplies

Fast Highspeed Wireless internet Free Long-Distance anywhere in North America from home phone

Full cable and PVR for taping any shows you may miss

Washer and Dryer in the suite

Dishwasher

EcoSmart Fireplace

Quartz Countertop and Tiled Backsplash

American Walnut dark hardwood floors throughout

Crown Molding and high baseboards

Rooftop Terrace with BBQ's

24hr security

Located at the corner of King st E and Church steps to the St Lawrence Market, Eaton Centre, Amazing restaurants, St James Park, King Subway station, Theatre's, 24hr grocery store.

Photos below are taken from the Canadian Living Website

92 King St E Apt 1006






1br - Furnished 1050 sq. ft - 1 bdrm, 1.5 bath, den (St. Lawrence Market)

St. Lawrence Market Neighbourhood, Toronto, ON (Available: 04/01/11)

Suite Features:

• Boutique building

• 1 bedroom plus den, fully renovated

• 1.5 bath

• 1050 square feet

• Kitchen Aid appliances, high end fixtures and finishes

• South & North exposure

• View of St. James Park, Cathedral and Lake Ontario.

Walking distance to TT Available April 1st.

95 Lombard St.




So, did we choose the first one with the medium price, outstanding rooftop deck/killer views, older kitchen appliances, true second bedroom?


Or…the second one with the designer furnishings and renovation but not our taste, rent at the high end of our budget, cool fireplace, tiny second bedroom?


Or…the third one with great views in three directions, powder room instead of a second bath, lowest rent of the three, solarium instead of a true second bedroom, cable and internet included?


For the reveal you will need to go to our new blog. http://ouryearintoronto.blogspot.com/


We will show you all the answer and new photos there in a couple of weeks.

Tuesday, April 12, 2011

Richard Thompson at Carnegie Hall


There is a really old joke about Carnegie Hall. The story goes that a pedestrian on Fifty-seventh Street, Manhattan, stopped Jascha Heifetz and inquired, "Could you tell me how to get to Carnegie Hall?" "Yes," said Heifetz. "Practice!” In our case we have had loads of practice getting to Carnegie Hall as we went right by it every time we went to Central Park. Our practice paid off a few weeks ago when we finally were able to go to a show there. We enjoyed a solo concert given by Richard Thompson. He is hardly a household name but he is one of the most respected musicians and songwriters among his peers. He actually appeared in the smaller 600 seat Zankel Hall. It is a beautiful state of the art facility that was renovated a few years ago.




Thompson did not disappoint…playing songs spanning his long career. He took a few requests and even got into some joking sparring with some of the audience and mocking his tendency to write dark and sometimes even gruesome lyrics.

1) I Misunderstood
2) Withered & Died
3) The Turning Of The Tide
4) The Money Shuffle
5) The Woods Of Darney
6) She Twists The Knife Again
7) Sunset Song
8) 1952 Vincent Black Lightning
9) Stumble On
10) Hamlet Song
11) Persuasion
12) Crawl Back Under My Stone
13) Bee’s Wing (request #1)
14) Cold Kisses
15) I Feel So Good
encore:
16) Matty Groves (request #2)

My only favorite that was missed was his often covered, “Wall of Death”. You may be familiar with Nanci Griffith's or R.E.M’s versions. This was easily one of the best shows we have seen in NYC. Since it will probably be our last one here it was a great way to finish.

Saturday, April 2, 2011

Eighteenth Visitors





Toni writes today: On St. Patrick’s Day, Sam and Kellie Dworkin arrived in NYC for five days. They stayed in the East Village with Sam’s cousin, Liz Dworkin, the real estate agent who was nice enough to give us our apartment hunting 101 crash course when we arrived here last April. We have known Sam since our school days in Overland Park, Kansas, and then we met Kellie when Sam started dating her back in 1980 when we used to frequent the Downliner and Parody Hall. Through the years our careers and families have not let us spend as much time as we have wanted to spend with them, so their New York vacation was the perfect time to catch up and recapture some of our fun glory days with them.


On St. Patty’s Sam and Kellie arrived at our apartment where we all enjoyed a take out lunch of corned beef sandwiches and matzo ball soup from Carnegie Deli. Then we walked down to the parade on 5th Avenue and viewed it for a few minutes. Next we walked down 5th Avenue into Central Park stopping at the Mall, Bethesda Fountain, the Boathouse, Strawberry Fields, and the Dakota. We took a snack break at a deli/diner as we walked south from 72nd Street down Columbus Avenue. Fortified once more we walked down to Times Square, Rockefeller Center, and back to our corner at 53rd and 7th Avenue. We met up with cousin Lizzy and her son (also named Sam) at our favorite neighborhood restaurant Maison for a wonderful 3 course dinner. It was a great day filled with food, drink, and many of the icons of the city.


The next day we met them at Washington Square Park for the requisite “Village Crawl”. First stop was Fat Cat for a game of Scrabble, then cheap drinks at the Cubby Hole, and round the corner to the back room lounge at Art Bar. Then a southern style BBQ dinner at Bone Lick. After our late dining I became the lightweight (so much for glory days), got in a cab, stumbled up to my bed, and slept for the next nine hours. The rest of the gang soldiered on to Marie’s Crisis Café to enjoy the piano bar. Unfortunately, we were only able to spend these two days of their vacation with them, as we had to finish our preparations for our two week stay in Toronto starting on Monday.


On Saturday the Dworkins went to the Tenement Museum and the Folk Art Museum, and then afterwards they stopped by our place for a view from our rooftop and good-byes. That night they were able to attend a Peter Case concert in the Lower East Side close to Liz’s apartment and we attended the Richard Thompson show at Carnegie Hall in our neighborhood.


We miss these great friends and hope they decide to be our house guests in Toronto in the next year or two. As evidenced by this writing, you can see they really know how to pack a lot of fun into life! For more photos go HERE.

Tuesday, March 29, 2011

Baker's Dozen


Yesterday marked the one year anniversary of our landing at Laguardia Airport. As it turns out our lease is not up until the end of April so you will be getting a little bonus on our blog. As I write we are actually in Toronto securing our next home and setting up things for that move. We sign the lease on Thursday and we will be sharing all that with you soon.


In the meantime, I have some New York posts to get caught up on and April looks to be very busy for us too.

Monday, March 28, 2011

West Side Stories


Toni writes today:


Act One


Last April we had completed one of our marathon shopping trips to finish furnishing our apartment at the Harold Square Macy’s. We were famished so we proceeded to the nearest restaurant, The Tick Tock Diner. As we were reviewing the menu I could not help but notice the couple in the booth behind and across from Bill. The man and woman were in their late twenties. He resembled a younger version of Steve Buscemi and she looked similar to Katie Holmes. They were engaged in a deep conversation which proceeded to gradually increase in volume. After a couple minutes I could hear every word the man was saying, mostly spouting out about his insecurities. I concluded that I was overhearing their “break-up”. As I tried to concentrate on the menu, they got louder and I told myself to hell with their privacy and perked my ears feline-style. I looked over my menu, kicked Bill under the table and gestured with my rolling eyes to open his ears to what we going on out of his sight. Bill only responded with, “What, what??”, but at this point the fun turned serious. Buscemi-face was practically shouting how he was going to do away with himself, and of course I jumped to the conclusion he was going to do it here and now, and take us all down with him. I was about to tell Bill out loud to duck and cover, when suddenly I noticed the couple sat back and relaxed with smiles on their faces. She said, “I think we got it now; that was great” as they both pulled out copies of scripts.


Act Two


It was a beautiful afternoon in June as I walked towards home on 8th Avenue from 57th Street. As I approached 56th Street I saw a man and woman emerge from one of the nicer Italian restaurants. They were in their mid-70s and dressed expensively (Trump-style). She was yelling at him as he checked his cell phone. My first thought was to avoid her unpleasant shrill voice and their slow pace so I wound around them and thought that I had left them behind. I got caught at a light and there they were right behind me again. At this point I could hear that the conversation was about infidelity. Now, I could have decided to cross the avenue, but my curiosity got the better of me so I stood pat enabling me to hear the drama unfold without being detected. This was better than watching the soaps or “The Insider”. Two blocks later they were still right behind me and I had been exposed to every cuss word known to man, concluding with, “Did you F*** her, you actually F***ed her….????? The accusations were met with another shrug as he continued to stare at his cell phone. They turned west and I turned east, never to know if they were married and heading to a costly divorce or seniors with dating issues. If we had all gone the same direction I might have eventually learned that they too were rehearsing for acting roles.


Act Three


Winter was finally starting to show signs of spring. I trekked back from produce shopping at Stiles with a full backpack. My route took me straight through the middle of the Theatre District. As I neared the backstage door to one of the theatres it suddenly burst open. From about fifteen feet away, I saw a beautiful, sprite-like girl run from the door and leap up onto her boyfriend, grabbed him around the neck and wrapped her legs around his waist. She must have been a dancer since no matter how young or thin I ever was I could have never have pulled off a move like that especially on the street and with such grace. I got a little closer and I heard her exclaiming, “I got the part! I got the part!” They kissed, then she leapt down and they strolled off toward me hand in hand. I took it as a lucky omen to witness such a joyful moment.


Maybe these occurrences are unique to New York because of all the “show people” that inhabit it. Perhaps they occur daily in every city but go unseen or unnoticed.

Wednesday, March 16, 2011

Lucinda Williams In The East Village



Saturday evening we headed down to the East Village to Webster Hall to catch the Lucinda Williams show. It seems that all of the shows are in the East Village and yet nearly every time to go to one it is a venue we haven’t been to before. Webster Hall is pretty interesting. It was built in the 1880s and is supposed to be the first nightclub in the US. It looks to me as if it has had minimal remodeling over the decades. The few updates have been on the surface, literally. They have added electricity, water sprinklers, speakers, and spotlights over the years but nothing has been installed behind the walls or hidden in the ceiling. Instead they ran layers of conduit and pipes on the outside of the walls and facades or even punched holes in the ceiling making all these improvements visible.

The posted time for the show was misleading and was actually the time for the doors to open so we wound up getting there a couple of hours earlier than we needed to. Toni decided she was not going to be able to wait until after the show to eat so she headed across the street to a place we had been to before, The Village Pour House. I wasn’t hungry so I decided to wait at the bar at the hall. She told me if I changed my mind I could meet her. When we were last at the restaurant in December we learned that this is the official watering hole for the local KU alumni to hang out. As fate would have it Toni had timed it perfectly to show at their door for the middle of the final game of the Big 12 Tournament. She wound up having Thai at the restaurant next door instead.

We found out that the venue was set up for standing only, no seats. However, one of the bouncers rounded up a chair for me and set us up just in front of the soundboard. This guy looked like he was wearing football shoulder pads. No exaggeration, he had to turn sideways to walk through doorways.

Lucinda’s show was good, not great. Pretty much the same formula for her live shows the last couple of times I saw her. Started out with semi-acoustic slower numbers and gradually kept notching up the tempo and volume until by the end she was rocking it out and shaking the rafters. The new material sounded OK but there was probably nothing there that will replace her older songs in the long run. You can check the song list below. After the show we were just waiting around for the others to clear out when our friend the bouncer came up to us and gave me the guitarist’s playlist complete with his notes of what guitar to use for each song and what chords to play. FWIW they did stray from the setlist as there was one song added for the finale. Lucinda is known for very little stage patter and simply introduces each song with, “This song is called ‘Sweet Old World’ “, or whatever. But for the last song of the evening she went on for some time about the state of the world and politics before the house lights came on and she launched into Buffalo Springfield’s “For What It’s Worth” (Hey, hey, what's that sound? Everybody look what's going down).
The audience roared and jumped right in singing the entire song with her.



Seventeenth Visitor

Toni writes today:
Late afternoon Tuesday, we had an enjoyable visit at our place with Alan, my brother-in-law who has been married to my sister Connie for forty-four years. He was in town for the day from Toronto to attend a working luncheon for his role as an alumni committee member from the Williams College class of 1961 located in Massachusetts. After his swanky private club luncheon at 65th and 5th he walked to our apartment as he is quite familiar with the city. Connie and Alan met each other while living in Manhattan in the middle 1960s eventually marrying and living here until moving to Canada.


We had not seen him since he and Connie stayed with us at our loft in Kansas City in June of 2009 for Connie’s 50th high school reunion at Paseo. We spent a couple of hours talking about all sorts of things: The Williams College 50th class reunion coming this June, writing, life in NYC, and life in Toronto. Alan and Connie have lived in Toronto since 1969 except for a few years in the 1980s when they resided in Halifax and Bridgewater, Nova Scotia. Like us, they emigrated to Canada from NYC. It’s funny to think about my migration pattern mirroring that of my sister’s years earlier: starting from Kansas City, then to NYC, and on to Toronto. It will be the first time in fifty-one years my sister and I have lived in the same city (I’ve been encouraged to blog about that). Alan is a retired city planner and planning consultant who now enjoys writing for a hobby. He is on his seventh novel, and has written a mountain of political commentary articles over many years. He is what most of us call, “scary smart” and luckily most of the time we are all on the same page with our opinions. Sometimes I think he thinks it would be more fun if we weren’t as he is a debater extraordinaire. After we have settled in Toronto awhile he is encouraging us to write about the differences, similarities, pros and cons of U.S. and Canadian health care systems. I am pretty motivated to do this since one of my passions is myth-busting, and Alan would be a willing critic and mentor. I walked with Alan to the Newark airport bus stop located across the street from Bryant Park. What made this fun was I got a city planner’s lesson from him. He talked of things like how the street signs were different in Toronto, how terraces on skyscrapers help lessen wind shear, and food cart licensing. I left him at the bus stop and as I was headed into the subway I realized it was the first time in my life after a visit with him I said, “See you Monday evening”, instead of “Goodbye”. .

Tuesday, March 15, 2011

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Whew! We got back from our trip to Kansas City and we were exhausted. We want to thank all of you who hosted us here and there and took time to meet with us at places and times that I am sure were not terribly convenient for you. Of course most of you know that our visit had a very sad part with my step-mother, Mary, passing. Thank you for the condolences. She left us way too quickly and way too young.

As we near our anniversary of being in New York City we are firming up plans for our next year which will be in Toronto. We thought it would be easier to get in a KC visit before rather than after the next move. We are sorry that we could not manage getting around to seeing everyone we hold dearly and that we did not get to spend more time with those we did see. We are grateful to have all of you in our lives and also grateful that we are able to stay in touch electronically today.

We plan to be living in Toronto by the end of April. In the meantime stay tuned for a flurry of more posts here as we aren’t done with Manhattan by a long stretch. Thanks for all the kind words about our blog and the encouragement to start another one in Toronto. We will be happy to report what we encounter there as well and hope to have just as many visitors in the coming year.

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Family Party
Happy Hour
BBQ
Brothers
Quivira

Sunday, February 27, 2011

Sidewalk Surfing

A few months ago I wrote about the ins and outs of using the New York City cabs. I would be remiss if I did not give the same attention to the other major mode of transportation here. That is walking. Yes, walking is serious business here. It is definitely not a stroll in the park. There are unspoken and unwritten protocols that can determine your mood for the day for better or worse and perhaps even your safety.

The main thing is to realize that in Manhattan the sidewalks generally operate like automobile traffic. You will find it easy to blend in if you handle yourself in much the same way that you do with your car. So, to start as you are coming out of a building you should enter slowly and look both directions.

Once you merge with the flow you need to be constantly scanning your surroundings, taking care to be aware of oncoming traffic as well as people behind you wanting to pass. Walking more than two abreast is a pretty bad idea. There are few places where that is possible for more than a minute or two at a stretch. If you do walk side by side you need to be able to switch to single file in an instant. Eventually you learn to carry on a conversation, have it abruptly interrupted, and then pick back up on it as the situation dictates. Apply the rules of the road to the sidewalk. Just as you would never suddenly stop on the highway you should not do that as a pedestrian either. Check behind you and step aside just like you would go to the shoulder. If you are in a group and have a sudden need for a conference try to consider your fellow walkers and gather in a spot out of the main flow.

In dense crowds like Times Square and rush hour you will get through much faster and with less frustration if you let someone else blaze the trail. Take note of someone moving about the speed you want to be going and just sort of shadow them. They will likely be taking a winding path rather than the usual straight line but if you stick with them you will find it is like coasting or drafting and your mental strain will drop.

Another good pointer is to walk against the car traffic if possible. Usually there are many alternatives in choosing a route to your destination. Nearly all the streets in Manhattan are one-way so if you have two options that are otherwise equal always take the one that is opposite the car traffic. This way when you are at crosswalks the cars turning on the red lights will be doing so in front of you where you can easily see what is happening instead of behind you where your attention is unnecessarily divided.


This leads right into the most critical part of walking safety, the crosswalk. The crosswalk may appear to be simple but it is one of the more complicated functions of Manhattan. At your first encounter you naturally look both ways before crossing and almost immediately realize this is a one way street. Don’t worry as no one else notices. The natives are too busy playing their game of “see who can cross the street first”. They are busy looking at a dozen or more different cues for when it is safe or at perhaps just less dangerous. Don’t follow them unless you are fluent in the art. In fact don’t even go with the herd without looking way down the road for one last cab trying to make the light. The herd saw that cab and knows it can cross. Keep in mind that, as far as I know, there Is no such thing as a speed limit in Manhattan. At least I have never seen a speed limit sign anywhere. That straggling cab can be on you in no time. After a while you will become adept at crossing against the light but don’t be in a big hurry.

Another crossing hazard is the bicyclist or the pedicab. They are supposed to follow the rules that apply to other vehicles of the road but occasionally a scofflaw will go the wrong way and/or run red lights. Near misses are an all too frequent occurrence and can have disastrous results.


When the light does change it will be like two dams bursting at once and you will be part of one tidal wave faced with passing through the opposing tidal wave. It will go smoother than you would think. Instead of crashing into a gridlock the two groups magically swirl through each other like schools of fish. A few seconds later the bunch will spread out and you will be back to the routine of the sidewalk, ready for the next crosswalk encounter as the cycle repeats.


There is no other place that requires a pedestrian to be so attentive. You must constantly scan and reassess your situation as carefully as driving a car in rush hour highway traffic. But with time and diligence you will eventually get into the flow and choreography of the process and you will no longer even think about what you are doing.

Wednesday, February 23, 2011

Sixteenth Visitor or No Company For Old Men








Tuesday evening we enjoyed visiting with our latest visitor, Jim Lucas. Jim did not come as far as most of the others, a one hour train ride from Connecticut, but he also came from twenty years in the past. Jim and I met when I was in Wichita around 1977. He was a newly minted sales rep for CBS Records and I was relatively new to the record business myself as a singles buyer. He would continue to be my rep until 1991 generally calling on me every other week. Over the years Jim, Toni, and I shared many dinners, concerts, parties, meet and greets, and even a few movies. We also shared much more especially when we had Village Records. The store was our “water cooler” where we would talk about the news of the day, TV shows, movies, oh yes, and music.

Then suddenly in 1991 he was promoted and transferred to the Boston office of Sony Music, which purchased CBS Records in 1987. We have not seen each other since. News of his further promotions would filter back to us through the record business grapevine. Each step was more and more unbelievable.

Jim arrived right on time and true to form with a bottle of fine wine in hand. We spent the next couple of hours trading updates on our adventures over the last two decades. Once Jim arrived in Boston he quickly rose within the company and found himself as the branch manager for all of Boston. A few years later he became branch manager for New York and eventually was promoted to executive vice president / general manager for the entire company. By this time Sony Music had merged with BMG (formerly RCA Records) creating the second largest recording company in the world. The record industry is known for having relatively young executives and unceremoniously dumping them as they reach an age where it is felt they can no longer relate to the young music coming up. The age of this demarcation is usually around fifty years old. I have had several friends in the record label business over the years and this rule of thumb has proven to be hard fast. Jim managed to defy the odds for an additional six years or so and is now enjoying his early retirement.

The three of us went to our favorite restaurant in our neighborhood, Maison, just across the street for round two of our get together. There we were able to continue with our reunion and for three more hours go from reminiscing to sharing our hopes and dreams for retirement and where to spend it. Jim had a long train ride back and it was late and cold. We took a couple of last photos on the sidewalk, shook hands and exchanged hugs. Jim hailed a cab to get back to Grand Central Station while I waited for the light to change. As he climbed into the cab we waved goodbye and like that he was gone again.

This whole evening was totally a result of reconnecting on Facebook. There are many who don’t think much of Facebook but I have to tell you that it is nothing short of magic. I know that we will be able to keep track of each other going forward and we will not take another twenty years to cross paths again.

Friday, February 18, 2011

Outdoor Skating At Bryant Park



Today was unusually warm, well into the sixties, so Toni and I headed out to soak in some of the great weather. We went with my choice, Bryant Park. In the winter they take up the sod in the center of the park and install an outdoor skating rink lined with Christmas shops. At this point the shops are nearly all gone and rink will be removed in another week or so.

Enjoy this short video.




This was a rare day to enjoy skating without being all bundled up. There were lots of tee shirts and tank tops and even a suit or two. We must have been there over an hour with old jazz and big band playing over head. It seems odd that on the sidewalks all around the park crowds of people are moving in such chaos while here on the rink it is just as crowded but everyone is flowing and harmonious.





Saturday, February 12, 2011

...Where Nature Ends...

We made it through the holidays. Now the excitement of New Year’s Eve celebrations have faded and all of the city's outdoor Christmas decorations have been taken down and stored. The sidewalks are no longer packed with tourists and we have been enduring the bitter cold and dodging bits of ice, real and imagined. This requires some creativity and spontaneity that we didn’t have to face in the longer and warmer seasons in New York.

One Sunday there was a bit of a break in the weather and I found an exhibit that would be closing soon. It was in a small museum called Neue Galerie located in the “Museum Mile” on the Upper East Side, about midway between the Metropolitan and the Guggenheim. It is in what once was a huge mansion but it is rather small to be called a museum. It has a Fifth Avenue address but I almost missed it as the entrance is actually on the cross street, 86th, with minimal signage. The place was packed but it turned out that most of the people were there for brunch. There are two cafes there on two floors taking up half of the public space in the old building. Both had long waiting lines so I wonder whether the main business is actually art or food. I was there to see a huge collection of art postcards that were produced in Austria from 1907 to 1920. I like poster art from the 20s and 30s and these are simply miniature posters. HERE are some examples. The other display was equally impressive and actually pretty bizarre and creepy. It was a collection of busts created in the 1770s. Take a look at them to see what I mean. They certainly don’t look like other works from that period. I do believe they may have inspired an episode of The Twilight Zone. If you are in New York and in the mood to see some different art remember that the smaller and lesser known places can be great experiences.

A week later Toni took a similar excursion and she takes over here:
I made it to my destination after trudging through the piles of slush and snow from the train station at 77th and Park to The Whitney at 75th and Madison. Once I was warm inside I assessed the space. It was smaller than the MoMA, but larger and more accommodating then the Guggenheim. I decided to visit three floors: first the Edward Hopper exhibit, then the 12 large permanent installations titled “Singular Visions”, and end with Charles LeDray’s “Workworkworkworkwork”. All three shows gave me the lift I needed to shed my cabin fever. The Hopper contained enlightening historical visuals of early 20th century New York City that I have never seen anywhere else. The arrangement of “Singular Visions” isolated each of the pieces so communication between it and the viewer was maximized. Paul Chan’s “1st Light” and Edward Kienholz’s “The Wait” was well worth seeing in person and will be lasting memories for me. Both send strong messages to get out and enjoy life now, something we can never be reminded of too many times. Then I was amazed at the thousands of perfectly arranged ceramic pieces and miniature clothing vignettes of the LeDray exhibit, again something I will not forget and witnessing it in person is the only way to feel their messages. Now with my imagination on fire it kept me warm as I walked down 5th Avenue along the East Side of Central Park until I reached the Plaza Hotel’s new food hall for a late afternoon lunch.


Back to Bill here on:
Then a couple of weeks ago we both went to the MoMA. There we saw a new exhibit called “Abstract Expressionist New York” These works are all part of their permanent collection but we have not seen them displayed in this arrangement before. Works were from artists like Pollack, Motherwell, Mark Rothko, Franz Kline, and more.





After that we toured the second floor featuring the permanent architecture displays. Then we grabbed a bite, an excellent lunch of homemade lentil soup and shared a grilled chicken Panini at the museum’s café. This was our fourth excursion to our little neighborhood museum and we were amazed to find new things to enjoy in it as much as we did the first time we were there in 2006.

Last Sunday was the first really good weather we had in a month so we hauled ourselves off to Harlem to meet one of New York’s hardest working artists, Franco the Great. His works are not located in galleries and they can’t be enjoyed during normal hours, in fact, just the opposite. His most famous works have been painted not on canvas but instead painted on security gates. In order to accomplish that he had to paint them at night when the stores are closed and the gates are down. Of course when the stores are open they can’t be seen so you have to go late at night or early Sunday morning. Normally these gates are tempting targets for graffiti artists but these works have been left intact I suppose out of respect for Franco. You can also meet the artist as every Sunday he has a vendor table set up across the street from the Apollo.




His art is located on both sides of 125th Street and extends for a couple of blocks to the east and west of the Apollo Theater. Since we were going that way Toni called ahead about taking a tour of the theater. We were excited to find out that Sunday was their annual open house and we would get to see the building and some amateur performances for free. What a great bonus.




So, we have managed to survive winter doldrums. Now the days are lengthening, the snow and ice are gone, and every week the temperatures get more and more agreeable. Soon the hordes of tourists and snowbirds will be returning and the cycle will start all over again. We can count on that.

Thursday, February 3, 2011

Get Smart Moment

We have recently had a few occasions to go to the Canadian Consulate of New York. It is conveniently located around the corner as part of the huge Rockefeller Center complex of buildings. My first visit was the most interesting. I knew where the building was as we had passed it dozens of times and the Canadian Flag flies outside the building next to the American Flag. But I had no idea where the Consulate was located within the building. There are probably eight separate entrances to the skyscraper and I just picked one at random. I was greeted by a doorman who told me the consulate was closed that day. I was pretty sure he was wrong and I asked for directions. He called on his phone a few seconds later a huge elevator door opened about five feet away. It was empty except for an attendant and it appeared that she was on duty full time. This elevator was big enough to fit a small car in it. She took me down below ground to a small white room and unlocked a door to a long corridor that was completely white and bare and completely void of people this day. As I headed toward the far end I heard the door close behind me and the click. I couldn’t help but think of “Get Smart” at this point and I snapped a photo of it on one of my later visits. The office was indeed open that day. Of course I had to go through what is now the requisite metal detector. After that it looked pretty much like a doctor’s waiting room. I went to the bullet proof window and got my questions answered and some forms and pamphlets.


I went out to retrace my steps in the block long hallway but when I got to the door the knob wouldn’t budge. As it was all white on white I looked around for a bit to see if perhaps there was another door that I had missed but I couldn’t detect any. I knocked on the door for a while but there were no signs of anyone around. I finally gave up and found some unlocked doors at the opposite end of the hall. These led to another hallway that eventually wound around to the Rockefeller subway station and from there I finally found an elevator to get me back to street level. However, to complete the “Get Smart” angle it popped in the middle of a sidewalk at least a block from where I started out. As you can see in the photo the elevator does resemble a phone booth.